How do you get someone out of your mind?
Getting someone out your mind where you would have spent alot of time is extremely difficult and you should not do that in a hurry.
If the other person broke you up or they did something wrong and you dont want to talk to them at all then you maybe thinking first step to take them out of your mind which is impossible.
Let the mind flow through as it would for those happy moments for a month or so and occasionaly even they call you tell them that you dont want to proceed further, reduce the amount of talk but keep the moments in your memory.
After 1 month engage yourself with something else and try to think about those bitter moments they did for you for a month and this month avoid talking or seeing completely.
In 3rd month mostly your mind will forget them but if its coming and going let it go and the phase will mostly end in 3 months or 100 days for sure.
Our mind is not made up to instantly forget someone up , around 0.5% of people in the world does that but i dont recommend that to you. You take the 100 days path to forget someone and if they forcing you in these time just be stubborn on your end and dont engage with them much.
Thanks for this wonderful question.
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